11 Reasons Dating a Married Man Isn't The Best Option

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Dating a married man isn't the best option for single ladies. Except you want to play second fiddle in the hands of a man who is passing out time with you. Don't be a side chick, but if you feel you have a choice, consider these scenarios; 

Before dating a married man, understand that,
1. He drives back to his wife and kids after dropping you off. You don't really matter much, do you? His family is his final destination, you're just a pathway.

2. As he walks home, he discards used condoms. Everything a married man had with you including sexual escapades is dumped in the trash. 

3. He buys deodorants and applies the one familiar to his wife to erase your perfume, regardless of how expensive it is.

4. As he drives to his children's mother, he regrets he's cheated on his wife and probably wished he had remained faithful. 

5. He then convinces himself that because of you, he cannot abandon his wife and children. No matter how nice or sexually attractive you may be. His heart is with his family but his head is with you. He could get the same thing you offer from so many other women.

6. He hugs her wife passionately and inquires about his children's education and welfare.

7. He eats his wife's cooking, not the junks from eateries he bought for you.

8. After eating, he unwinds on the couch, and they both retire to their respective bedrooms where they make love, not just sex.

9. While she is lying on his chest, they talk about future aspirations and talk about their parents, their past and their holiday destinations for the coming holidays and wedding anniversary.

10. After making love with his wife, he doesn't take a bath afterward because he is accustomed to his wife's aroma. He's using you to pass time.

11. Dating a married man is prostitution actually. The gifts and money he gives you as a side chick is for services rendered. 

In conclusion, would you be happy if someone else divides the attention of your husband assuming you were married? It is your value that ultimately detrrmines your action. Live right.

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